This is not a philosophical blog

This is not a twitter-like, updatemyeverymove-kind of blog

This is not a review-of-Korea-life blog… …well maybe a little, if you consider reviewing Korean gays a good blog ^^

Last night I had a convo with friends, while drinking NORTH Korean beer in the Hongdae Park about sex and finding a Korean boyfriend. Long story short, the end result of that convo is this blog…

enjoy the ride of the Only Gay In The Villiage (not really, but most of the times it does feel like that) 

Oh, and if you see a tall handsome foreign gay in Sinchon or Hongdae, or just Seoul, or even South Korea, that’s probably me ^^

So I’ve been going on a tumblr-stalk slash finding-followees (is that the right term to use? IDK, I’m new here, so whatever)

therefore, if you discover a random follower on your list, don’t threat. It’s just a gay keeping up with whats happening in Korealand

So I got a question as to what the story is behind my previous quote: “He has to stick it in one last time before going to the army”.

Ok, here goes…

1. One of my friends likes to refer to sex as “stick it in”, for obvious reasons.

So I met a Kgay on Tuesday evening just for a random, casual NSA encounter. Well, I thought it would be NSA, because on Wednesday he called me up and asked if I wanted to do lunch. I agreed, but with a little incentive for after lunch ^^. Tuesday night was fun, Wedensday lunch was more fun. We had lunch, then had ice-cream, then MADE OUT in Baskin Robbins (at those tables in front of the massive windows) and then proceded to my apartment. After all this, I had to get ready to go back to work. So I walked him to the subway station, where he proceded to tell me that…

2. He has to go to the army the next day (ie Thursday)

This isn’t a major trainsmash, as it is what it is. UNTILL he asked if I would wait for him and then we can go on a real date when he is done with his military taining… big BIG WTF!!!!! No dude, just NO! lol

so there you have it… the story behind the previous quote

Man oh man oh man, seriously? SERIOUSLY! Last night was just redic.

I DON’T get played! I just don’t. I play! I went to The Hill last night with a new friend, who happens to be Korean American. Everything went well, we were talking, we were drinking, we were touching each other up on the dancefloor. Everything was good. Until his obsessed friend showed up, made a scene and stormed off crying. Apparently this roundeye confessed his love to the KA a few weeks ago, and the KA is “too good of a person” to let him go. Yeah, so KA just left WITHOUT SAYING GOODBYE! I think that’s the shit that pissed me off the most, the fact that he didn’t say goodbye…

luckily, me being me and being able to stand out in the crowd, another guy approached, who happens to be from Hong Kong. We were having really good convos (which I thought was strange) and we dance and drank. Well, I did, I didn’t buy him a beer. When the night came to a close, I offered him my place, he declined, I went home… alone. No big deal, whatever, because I kind of got over the KA… until this morning -_-

Sometimes I wonder why people can’t just lay their cards on the table, instead of keeping it close to their chest. Like, I’m sorry, are we in primary school again???

I hate Mondays for various reasons. But the reason I hate most, is because it’s a new week and a new start in finding a Kgay. I don’t really know when this obsession started with finding a BF, but I think it has to do with age. Entering the quater-life crisis is taking it’s toll and effecting my “rational” thinking.

It’s really REALLY difficult to find a Kgay, well, one that wants to be in a relationship as I have come to experience. Most Kgays I’ve met are only interested in banging, and yeah, it’s good for curing that hunger you get every now and again, but to be serious, it’s getting very old very fast.

Sitting in a coffee shop, looking at potentials is actually more depressing than inspiring. Everyone who has lived in Korea knows that the physical appearance of Kboys are very metrosexual. Sometimes distinguishing between a Kmetro, and a Kgay is EXTREMELY difficult. This make it even more difficult for a foreign gay to tap into his gaydar and find some potentials. This is both frustrating and annoying..

What I am left with is summed up in the word MONGAYS… Mongay blues -_-

I’m going to say that this song, this video, those blue silk pants are just absolutely AHmaze! Seriously. WOW. iloveit

so I know that this blog is not an updatemyeverymove-kind of blog like I said in my first ever post, but this is too funny to NOT share…

I got a boner for 50mins straight by just looking at my student for 50mins straight… The last time this happened was in December 2010. It’s a welcome surprise as I kind of lost faith in the attractiveness of my student Kboys…

So, thank you 준희 for reminding me that there are perks to having this job ^^

aaaaaaaargh! I hate it when I have to wake up at 5:30.
aaaaaaaargh! I hate it when I fell asleep at 01:30.
aaaaaaaargh! I hate it when I have to come to work when there is a Kgay still laying in my bed ^^

update in 2 hours :)